Stepping up to the plate to mentor!

by Kathryn Graver

April 3, 2015

Editor’s Note: Does your early childhood program present the professional demeanor reflective of an organization that provides exceptional learning experiences for young children? McCormick Center faculty and staff will reflect on the topic of professionalism and how it relates to the field of early care and education in blog posts over the next several weeks.


Several months ago I was asked to be a mentor for a new employee here at the McCormick Center. As I began thinking about how to approach this mentoring request, I remembered how I was mentored at one time.

Years ago, I worked for a very gentle and kind man at a social service agency. As an education major with not much background in social service, I went to Kent many times for guidance and mentoring. After several years of working with him, I felt that I had learned much from his example and words of wisdom; he never tried to tell me what to do or how to do it and respected my ideas and creative approach to situations. As my mentor he would often make suggestions, offer help, and encourage me to reshape my thoughts on a topic by giving me a journal article to review, a few pages in a book to read, or by asking me to contact someone who might have had a similar experience. I learned so much from this experience. I think that whenever I have had the chance to guide or help anyone I have used this exact approach.

Mentor! What does it really mean?

One type of mentoring is a relationship that is formally established for an introductory or short period, often to meet specific organization objectives. For example, a new employee may be paired with a senior employee (Shea, 1992).

After doing a little homework, I learned that my mentoring job at the McCormick Center was just that. I would be helping a new employee become familiar with our culture and norms.

I found the formal mentor title a bit intimidating, so in preparation for my new role, I decided to create a job description to help sort out what the responsibilities could be. I found myself reflecting on my experience as Kent’s mentee.
Here’s what I scribbled down:


Does this list look familiar? Does it fit into your job description? As an early childhood leader, it seems to me we all take on these roles as we work to cultivate a strong team.

In many ways I feel that my mentoring experiences have come full circle since I was able to channel much of Kent’s mentoring style into my own. By sharing my knowledge and ideas I was able to steer the new employee in the right direction when he needed resources or additional information.

How about you? Have you ever been a mentor or been mentored? What did your mentor job description look like?

Are you interested in learning more about mentoring?

Join me at Leadership Connections™ national conference for the dine and discuss group “The Secret to Successful Mentoring.”

Resources to support you in your role as mentor:

Bloom, P.J. (2007). From the inside out: The power of refection and self-awareness. Lake Forest, IL: New Horizons.

Bloom, P.J. (2005). Blueprint for action: Achieving center-based change through staff development (revised edition). Lake Forest, IL: New Horizons.

Shea, G. (1992). Mentoring: A practical guide. Menlo Park, CA: Crisp Publications.

Edelman, M. W. (1999). Lanterns: A memoir of mentors. New York, NY: Harper Collins.

Kathryn Graver is the Program Supervisor for online professional development at the McCormick Center for Early Childhood Leadership, including the Aim4Excellence National Director Credential and Getting Ready for the PAS and Getting Ready for the BAS online modules. She holds a BA in Psychology and has a MS.Ed in Education.

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